Maraming nagsasabi na bago ka raw magmahal ng iba, mahalin mo muna ang sarili mo.
Totoo naman. Pero there’s more to it than that.
Sa dami nang gusto mag-dictate sa ‘yo kung sino at ano ka dapat as a woman, you can’t settle for less.
“You deserve an explanation! You deserve an acceptable reason!” Gaya nang sinabi ni Marco sa Starting Over Again.
Kaya scroll down to see tips on how to love yourself right as a woman.
Huwag magsawang matuto.
You are more powerful than you think, lalo na kung ipu-pursue mo ‘yung hunger mo for growth.
“Learning about things going on in the world around you will expand your brainpower and understanding, and will let you speak intelligently to a wide variety of people you meet,” sabi sa article na How to Have Respect for Yourself – 8 Must-Know Tips published in The Hope Line by Dawson McAllister.
Huwag ka ring matakot na i-explore at i-express ang talents mo whether it’s through art, music, writing, sports, or photography. Depende sa ‘yo. There are a lot of women out there who has shown fearlessness sa pag-abot ng pangarap nila and kaya mo rin ito.
Kaibiganin mo ‘yung inner critic mo.
Nakakawindang isipin, pero it’s possible.
Sabi ni Alison Cook, Ph.D. in her write up When your shaming inner critic meets gentleness, “Your inner critic is trying to help. In its twisted, misguided way, this part of you actually thinks it’s motivating you. It thinks that if it stopped telling you how much better you could be, you’d become mediocre, lazy, pathetic, or unlovable.”
Makes sense?
Some examples Alison gave are: If you catch yourself comparing to other women, instead of saying, “I should be more like her.” Pwede mong i-replace nang, “I want to be my best self.”
O ‘di kaya, kapag feeling mo stuck ka and walang progress. Imbis na sabihin mo, “Sana successful na rin ako tulad niya.” You may say, “I’m not where I want to be yet. But each day, I’m going to do my best to take the next step.”
Next tip, lumayo sa mga toxic relationships.
Hindi ka ba napapagod sa tsismisan? Siraan? Gamitan?
Women generally love to talk, but instead of using that to stab another one’s back, you should use this to lift other women up. Pero mahihirapan kang gawin ‘yun if surrounded ka ng mga tao na hindi healthy for you.
“Finding and investing in a good friend is a bit like dating. It can feel lonely and vulnerable while you are in the process of searching. You might get to know a lot of people before you find those one or two ladies who connect and show themselves loyal over time. But, if you commit to the process with care and intention, you will find new friendships that satisfy your needs and desires,” says Alison.
Love yourself enough to choose the people na i-a-allow mo sa buhay mo. ‘Yung totoo at pang-matagalan.
Last but definitely not the least, matutong tumanggap ng pagmamahal.
Hindi lang ikaw ‘yung bigay nang bigay because eventually mapapagod at mauubos ka.
Naramdaman mo na ba ‘yun?
You can only do so much based on your own strength and abilities as a woman kaya this is the most important tip na dapat mong ma-gets.
There is Someone greater than you – the Creator who is Love.
Kapag naka-receive ka ng love Niya, doon mo lang matututunan how to really love yourself and others because His love for you never runs out.
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